Apply here if you are interested in joining the team! Started Monday at 08:56 AM, By ENA has been a great support network you are all very nice people. Unless I really, really wanted him back, I wouldn't want him coming over. My SO is upset with me over this decision. This subreddit is a community-oriented place for stepparents from all walks of life. The truth is there is only him. 2. All four of those things could not out weigh how much he values you. Has an ex ever showed up at your house unexpectedly? Create an account to follow your favorite communities and start taking part in conversations. Id be calling whoever I knew he was with if it were me. At first he seemed very calm and when I asked him how he was feeling he started to get agitated and then broke down again. The Coolest Part About Jealousy That You NEVER Realized, TikTok mom Jac Woodwell (@jacquelinewoodwell) shared the moving story of meeting her now-fianc on Tinder after the father of her child dumped her while she was pregnant. He is still clearly in love with you but very confused and hurt. She said that wasn't the case at all, that she fell in love with me after a short while. She made references to it a few different times and I told her that it wasn't her business. I did that too. Manage Settings ._2cHgYGbfV9EZMSThqLt2tx{margin-bottom:16px;border-radius:4px}._3Q7WCNdCi77r0_CKPoDSFY{width:75%;height:24px}._2wgLWvNKnhoJX3DUVT_3F-,._3Q7WCNdCi77r0_CKPoDSFY{background:var(--newCommunityTheme-field);background-size:200%;margin-bottom:16px;border-radius:4px}._2wgLWvNKnhoJX3DUVT_3F-{width:100%;height:46px} My thoughts exactly. I think the consensus, OP, is: don't do it. A woman said she took her five-year-old child to the home of a YouTuber unannounced. Seems like basically what everyone is saying is be cautious. I feel as though I have been misunderstood. If you feel threatened by their refusing to leave, you can call the police. Unfortunately, I have a feeling this isn't going to be the last time I've heard from her. I said I didnt recognise the names of the people he said Ive been speaking to (which is completely true). I would be throwing hands if BM walked into our home uninvited. I told her. Read More >. It is also a sign of pathological jealousy. ._3Z6MIaeww5ZxzFqWHAEUxa{margin-top:8px}._3Z6MIaeww5ZxzFqWHAEUxa ._3EpRuHW1VpLFcj-lugsvP_{color:inherit}._3Z6MIaeww5ZxzFqWHAEUxa svg._31U86fGhtxsxdGmOUf3KOM{color:inherit;fill:inherit;padding-right:8px}._3Z6MIaeww5ZxzFqWHAEUxa ._2mk9m3mkUAeEGtGQLNCVsJ{font-family:Noto Sans,Arial,sans-serif;font-size:14px;font-weight:400;line-height:18px;color:inherit} Just two days ago he said he never wants to see me again. a woman is struggling with her boyfriends parents unannounced visits. I thought it was pretty funny! If you have questions about the community, or concerns about posters, please reach out to the mod team. Started Saturday at 09:38 PM, By He needs to set her straight. Started Friday at 11:13 PM, Mel Robbins posted a blog entry in Youtube, September 23, 2022, Psych2Go posted a blog entry in Youtube, September 23, 2022, Tony Gaskins posted a blog entry in Youtube, September 23, 2022, Yahoo posted a blog entry in News, September 11, 2022, Newsweek posted a blog entry in News, September 11, 2022, Everytime I tell him the truth he says im lying. Then we left and as he was walking he started getting increasingly angry again started calling me names again and started telling me he was on the internet all night looking at my myspace/facebook/blogs and saying he saw "all the guys i talk to". She said our relationship was good for people who were a bit older, but not for college kids, which I agreed with her on. "because im in love with you, you stupid stupid girl". Basically in a nutshell, my ex and I are still in college. Press Boyfriend said I dont truly love him if Im not letting boyfriend is mad at me for taking a week to bring up Am I wrong? She brought up the fact that when we first started dating, she wasn't 100% over her ex(granted we started to date 6 months after they broke up). By By I know you love him, but before you even consider going back with him, you better make sure he's gotten over this. I don't know what she wants and apparently no one else does, including her. .LalRrQILNjt65y-p-QlWH{fill:var(--newRedditTheme-actionIcon);height:18px;width:18px}.LalRrQILNjt65y-p-QlWH rect{stroke:var(--newRedditTheme-metaText)}._3J2-xIxxxP9ISzeLWCOUVc{height:18px}.FyLpt0kIWG1bTDWZ8HIL1{margin-top:4px}._2ntJEAiwKXBGvxrJiqxx_2,._1SqBC7PQ5dMOdF0MhPIkA8{vertical-align:middle}._1SqBC7PQ5dMOdF0MhPIkA8{-ms-flex-align:center;align-items:center;display:-ms-inline-flexbox;display:inline-flex;-ms-flex-direction:row;flex-direction:row;-ms-flex-pack:center;justify-content:center} Nothing ever seems cut and dry in this department. So she left to pick their kid up from school because she didnt hear from him then when she heard back from him that he had her she decided to come to our house (its on the way to school) to idk what confront him about not answering her? That's all I'm getting from thisor else there is a huge chunk of info you dont have (like maybe her rebound guy or ex or whoever dumped her). She seems less and less. edit: But I'm an idiotyou'd probably be better off blocking her number and not answering the door next time. i would ve to agree with ben, it does ve to do with the level of relationship, if the relationship is a serious one by that i'm assuming both parents are involved that kinda thingy there's nothing wrong in popping in unannounced but if otherwise which a lot of ladies like to do (wonder y) its best to call before showing up not because of anything Started Friday at 11:13 PM, Mel Robbins posted a blog entry in Youtube, September 23, 2022, Psych2Go posted a blog entry in Youtube, September 23, 2022, Tony Gaskins posted a blog entry in Youtube, September 23, 2022, Yahoo posted a blog entry in News, September 11, 2022, Newsweek posted a blog entry in News, September 11, 2022. I just always tell him the same thing. ._2a172ppKObqWfRHr8eWBKV{-ms-flex-negative:0;flex-shrink:0;margin-right:8px}._39-woRduNuowN7G4JTW4I8{margin-top:12px}._136QdRzXkGKNtSQ-h1fUru{display:-ms-flexbox;display:flex;margin:8px 0;width:100%}.r51dfG6q3N-4exmkjHQg_{font-size:10px;font-weight:700;letter-spacing:.5px;line-height:12px;text-transform:uppercase;-ms-flex-pack:justify;justify-content:space-between;-ms-flex-align:center;align-items:center}.r51dfG6q3N-4exmkjHQg_,._2BnLYNBALzjH6p_ollJ-RF{display:-ms-flexbox;display:flex}._2BnLYNBALzjH6p_ollJ-RF{margin-left:auto}._1-25VxiIsZFVU88qFh-T8p{padding:0}._2nxyf8XcTi2UZsUInEAcPs._2nxyf8XcTi2UZsUInEAcPs{color:var(--newCommunityTheme-widgetColors-sidebarWidgetTextColor)} When I was in college, I went to an ex's dorm room once. Read More >, This has never happened in our family before. Just curious if anyone has tried to go over the ex's house after a few months of not seeing them. This topic is now archived and is closed to further replies. Write it down and date it. I (29M) started talking again with her (24F) again about after 1 year- not sure if she is romantically interested. OTOH, if you broke it off and truly want to try again, can you not contact her by some other means? I had called once andher maid answered and I spoke her native language. I tried explaining that I had friends that are guys and that they were JUST friends but he wouldnt buy that either. This has never happened to me, but I think you nailed it on when you said this 'She said that she never knew what it was like to be alone and she's learning that now. ' She said that she felt like being with someone else would help her. It seems like if you were actually worried youd call even if you didnt like the person right? I say stay away for your own mental sanity. +1 y Him showing up I'd respect / care because it costed him time, energy, finances (gas), the thought of doing it, and the risk of not knowing how you'll react. Regardless, I would recommed ever showing up to an exes house uninvited. Few or no close male friends. Even if the claims arent too serious, you may not find about an investigation until a CPSsocial worker arrives. I was starting to feel like I was almost over her too and she just randomly shows up. Started Monday at 08:56 AM, By At this point, my shield that I put up when she came through the door was slowly starting to fade. Also why the emotional break down in front of you? That went over well. I did enable her too though, so it's not totally her fault. and I freaked and broke up with her. It was disasterous. I kept saying to her, So that's it? Perhaps this was a mistake on my part. The consent submitted will only be used for data processing originating from this website. My BM is a special kind of crazy so if she were to show up, we know she has snapped. Has anyone tried to set something up through a relative etc? But then she'd test me by saying stuff like 'Well, you don't have to see me again' or 'Sorry for bothering you'. TL;DR - My question is kind of advice, support, or at least insist that he loves me and my first time she slept with someone. Only the one in her head. Yeah, I was pretty pissed off when she told me that she was standing outside of my door. Was completely inappropriate. I should have said I was bus Started Friday at 07:51 AM, By jessb86a Only time will tell if he will ever come back. Started Saturday at 09:38 PM, By Please note we are a support sub for stepparents' issues. All four month probably just hit her all at once. Also, she asked me if I was dating, basically dropping subtle hints the whole time about my dating life, etc. Or you'll have her really messing with your emotions. Both of us have been involved with other people, yet she still came running back to my apartment for whatever reason. Tuesday, December 13, 2022. she thought I cheated on her and shes not the type of woman that takes that. Why are you ignoring me, etc'. but it was more of her testing out a guy to see if she liked him before she broke up with me kinda deal. Do what you do, be kind, gentle, respectful, and apprutiate her the way she is, because at one point she was your best friend and partner. By Is he interested or did I misunderstand the situation.. TikTok mom who got 'dumped' while pregnant shares how Tinder date became her fianc. He sounds downright manipulative to me. My ex has only supervised visitation, but he keeps showing up at my house without notice or permission and making major scenes to see our son. I pretty much let it go this morning and feel back to normal now. Showing up unannounced or uninvited. We and our partners use data for Personalised ads and content, ad and content measurement, audience insights and product development. It doesn't matter whether you've got a fun story or are at the end of your rope; we are family. Im very tempted to phone his relative to make sure hes okay from this morning though, but Im not sure thats such a good idea. Izzy1234 She kept saying that she didn't know what it was like to be alone and she's been learning that now. Create an account to follow your favorite communities and start taking part in conversations. Keep strong and don't expect anything. What else is new, huh? I dont even do that to my own mother . He has your ex things in his house and someone else apart from you and him knows.. His ex girlfriend also knows and she hasnt picked I want him to know I care but all the while keeping my distance and my dignity. Don't do it. Your emotions will come flooding back and you will be left feeling worse than before you showed up. Remember that OP is a human being and their needs are first and foremost on this sub. Because it certainly isn't because he's making you happy. I've talked to friends and they've just told me to stay away or else I'll just get hurt all over again. She used this guy as a rebound so she wouldn't have to face the issues and pain of the break up. It seems to me she was so comfortable around you that she decided it would be brave thing to do. Who dumped who in my situation is a bit hard. 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